Greetings all. In the midst of the GBVF pandemic, we as Men have to reflect and have an internal discussion with about the cause of this issue. I reflect in this article on one of the issues in Lesotho we need to consider and work on.

 

Toxic masculinity in Lesotho is a pervasive issue that has significant consequences for individuals and society as a whole. While the concept of toxic masculinity is not unique to Lesotho, the cultural and societal norms in the country have created an environment where harmful behaviours and attitudes associated with traditional masculinity are prevalent.

 

In Lesotho, traditional gender roles often dictate that men should be the providers and protectors of their families, while women are expected to be subservient and fulfill domestic duties. This hierarchical view of gender roles reinforces the idea that men should be strong, dominant, and emotionally stoic, while women are expected to be nurturing, passive, and submissive. These rigid gender norms contribute to the perpetuation of toxic masculinity and the normalisation of harmful behaviours such as aggression, violence, and control.

 

One of the most visible manifestations of toxic masculinity in Lesotho is the high prevalence of gender-based violence. According to a report by UNICEF, nearly one in three women in Lesotho have experienced physical or sexual violence by a partner. This alarming statistic highlights the widespread problem of intimate partner violence in the country, which is often fuelled by traditional beliefs about gender roles and power dynamics within relationships.

 

Toxic masculinity also plays a role in perpetuating harmful practices such as forced marriage and bride abduction, which are still prevalent in some communities in Lesotho. These practices often stem from the belief that men have the right to assert control over women’s bodies and make decisions for them without their consent. This reinforces patriarchal notions of ownership and dominance that contribute to the marginalisation and disempowerment of women and girls.

 

In addition to its impact on women and gender minorities, toxic masculinity also has negative consequences for men themselves. The pressure to conform to traditional ideals of masculinity can result in men suppressing their emotions, avoiding seeking help for mental health issues, and engaging in risky behaviours to prove their manhood. This can lead to increased rates of substance abuse, suicide, and other adverse health outcomes among men in Lesotho.

 

Addressing toxic masculinity in Lesotho requires a comprehensive and collaborative effort that involves individuals, communities, and institutions working together to challenge harmful gender norms and promote positive models of masculinity. Education and awareness-raising campaigns are essential for challenging entrenched beliefs about gender and fostering healthy attitudes towards masculinity and femininity.

 

Community-based initiatives that engage men and boys in discussions about gender equality and healthy relationships can also play a crucial role in challenging toxic masculinity and promoting positive forms of masculinity that prioritise respect, empathy, and equality. By involving men as allies in the fight against gender-based violence and discrimination, we can create a more inclusive and equitable society for all individuals in Lesotho.

 

Ultimately, addressing toxic masculinity in Lesotho requires a shift in cultural norms and attitudes towards gender that prioritises respect, equality, and diversity. By challenging harmful stereotypes and promoting healthy forms of masculinity, we can create a more inclusive society where individuals of all genders can thrive and live free from violence and discrimination.

 

KHOTSO. PULA. NALA

 

BY ABUBACAR JABBIE