As we end the traditional 16 Days of Activism Against GBV, I propose a renaming to 365 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based violence And Femicide as this is a more specific and appropriate name for this pandemic. This is a pervasive and deeply rooted issue that affects individuals and societies and specifically here in Lesotho. Of late, child kidnapping and murders have been making headlines in our respective newspapers and social media. A troubling trend indeed. Femicide, which is the murder of women by an intimate partner, is also becoming a scourge in Lesotho and has also been in our media even in these “16 Days” so us a Basotho need to step up and not only talk about it, but start proactively doing something about it. Themed events and government promises have done nothing do deal with this evil.
GBVF refers to any form of violence, abuse, discrimination and murder that is specifically directed towards someone based on their gender or perceived gender roles. This includes physical, sexual, emotional, and economic abuse and can manifest in numerous ways such as domestic violence, sexual assault, harassment, and femicide.
This essay aims to shed light on the various aspects of gender-based violence and femicide, including its causes, consequences, and potential solutions. It is crucial to address this issue comprehensively to create a society that respects and upholds the rights of all individuals, regardless of their gender.
One of the significant causes of gender-based violence and femicide is entrenched societal norms and unequal power dynamics. Traditional gender roles often perpetuate harmful stereotypes about masculinity and femininity, which can lead to the marginalization and subjugation of individuals. This power imbalance is evident in areas such as domestic relationships, the workplace, and public spaces, where women are disproportionately targeted.
The consequences of GBVF are far-reaching, affecting not only the physical and mental well-being of survivors but also hindering social and economic development. Victims often experience trauma, fear, and loss of self-esteem. They may face long-term psychological and emotional distress, as well as physical injuries. In addition to the personal toll, GBVF also has significant social and economic costs, including increased healthcare expenses and lost productivity.
To combat GBVF it is crucial to address its root causes and challenge societal norms that perpetuate inequality. Education plays a vital role in raising awareness about the issue, promoting gender equality, and changing attitudes and behaviors. Schools and universities should incorporate comprehensive sex education that addresses consent, healthy relationships, and gender norms.
Legal frameworks must be strengthened and strictly enforced to protect individuals from gender-based violence. Harsher penalties should be imposed on offenders, and survivors must have access to justice systems that are supportive and respectful of their rights. This includes ensuring that law enforcement agencies and the judiciary have the necessary training to handle cases of gender-based violence effectively.
Comprehensive support services must be provided for survivors. This includes accessible and confidential helplines, shelters, counseling, and medical assistance. Additionally, creating economic empowerment opportunities for survivors can help them rebuild their lives and reduce their vulnerability to further violence.
Engaging men and boys in the fight against GBVF is crucial for creating sustainable change. Programs that promote positive masculinity and challenge harmful gender stereotypes can help foster a culture of respect and equality. Men must be educated about the importance of consent, recognizing and addressing their privilege, and becoming allies to survivors.
Gender Based Violence and Femicide is a deeply ingrained issue that permeates all levels of society. It is essential to tackle this problem comprehensively, addressing its causes, consequences, and solutions. By challenging societal norms, educating individuals, strengthening legal frameworks, providing support services, and engaging men and boys, we can strive towards a society free from gender-based violence. Only by working together can we create a world where all individuals can live, thrive, and pursue their dreams without fear of violence or discrimination based on their gender.
This pandemic should not be addressed as a monthly themed event but a year–long, consciously applied way of living.
Khotso. Pula. Nala
BY: ABUBACAR JABBIE